Men’s 3 1/2-Day Going Deeper Healing Intensives

Becoming Well started with a personal journey

Are you working on your recovery from porn/sexual addiction and intimacy avoidance? If so, why is your marriage still struggling so much and why do you still have behaviors and/or belief systems that are stunting you/your marriage from truly becoming well?

Why are you still stuck? Why aren’t you getting a lot better? Why isn’t your marriage getting a lot better? Because Sober is not Well. The areas underlying the SA and IA have to be addressed. It’s time to take another step in your recovery journey and focus on the roots.

In the Men’s “Going Deeper” Healing intensive, of the 16 roots that slow or block recovery, you’ll focus on 4 specific areas that will be identified through a 2-part assessment process, one with you and the other getting your partner’s input. You will spend your intensive time focused on the 4 identified focus areas in a process we call “Depth Work.” That work would happen throughout the 3 ½ day intensive.

The 16 root areas of potential intensive focus are:

Trauma Focus
Loss Focus
Neglect Focus
Abandonment Focus
Other Addictions/Addiction Swapping Focus
Anger Focus
Specific Avoidance Focus
Sexless Marriage Focus
Shame Focus
Chronic Lying Focus
Low or Lack of Empathy Focus
Over Controlling of Self & Others’ Focus
Narcissistic Characteristics Focus
Perpetual Victim Focus
Emotional Immaturity Focus
Chronic Negative Thinking Focus

You will leave with a plan to focus on Depth Work as our team will stay in communication with your counselor or coach for 12 months after leaving the intensive.

These intensives are focused on helping men heal from trauma, neglect, abandonment, loss, and pain. This intensive also focuses on Recurrent struggles. It’s critical to dismantle recurrent struggles that are destroying you and/or your marriage and have you stuck.

We help men break free from shame and the automatic negative thoughts that hinder their ability to love and accept themselves and others. Let us help you remove roadblocks so that you can experience true healing.

Men who haven’t addressed their trauma or recurrent struggles typically struggle with self-esteem, destructive belief systems, and the devastating impact of addiction and/or intimacy avoidance. This can have far-reaching effects that often take years to realize and unravel.

The Intensive focus will include impacts on your Perception of Yourself & Others, Your Brain, Your Ability to Attach, Your Belief systems, Your Recurrent Destructive Behaviors, Your Masculine Paradigm

During the daily sessions offered through intensives, you can see growth in days similar to what most have experienced in months through traditional approaches. Intensives can be a great way to jump-start your recovery and bring new life to your journey toward healing.

A Men’s Healing Intensive provides participants with a safe environment in which to explore recovery. Often, men feel alone, judged, and hopeless. Intensives in a group format provide hope that you are not alone. You will hear the stories and struggles of others, allowing you to gain a deeper understanding of what you’ve experienced in childhood and as you’ve tried to navigate your life in adulthood. You will not only see things through your historical lens, but through the eyes of others. This can help you gain a much-needed perspective that will begin to move you forward in recovery.

Men's Healing Intensives are:

For men who are stuck and don’t know how to get better.
For men who have created relational destruction and want to get to the root that’s been driving it all along.
For men who want to join a community of people who understand.
For men who want to learn from the experience of others in a safe environment.
For men who have done recovery work but know they have to dig out the roots to find freedom from their destructive behaviors
For men who need a safe space to deal with what has happened without feeling judged.
For men who want to hear from experts on how to recover from trauma and other recurrent struggles.
For men who want to accomplish in 3 1/2 days what normally takes 4-6 months of session work to achieve

The Details:

Men’s Healing Intensives are limited to 12 men per week.
The cost of each weekend is $3,699
A non-refundable deposit of 50% is due upon registration. The remaining balance will be charged to your card on file one week before the start date of your Group Intensive Weekend.
Healing Intensives take place on Thursday-Sunday.
Your intensive will include intake and assessment sessions to identify your particular needs.
Each intensive weekend is comprised of groups, learning, processing, specific exercises, and personalized recovery plans.
The time commitment per day is approximately 8 hours.
Healing Intensive weekends are offered in-person only.